The lesson of life

今天自己从补习驾车回家，半途中突然听到救护车的铃声

从往后镜看，看到后面有一辆飞快的救护车，车后还尾随一辆的士

当时的交通情况非常的塞车

那辆的士给我的第一个反应就是趁车辆让路给救护车趁机插队

看到这种情况我觉得非常可笑

可是，当我看到的士紧随救护车时，突然我有个想法

的士里面载的是不是救护车里的伤者的家人或朋友？

它是不是也赶着去医院陪伴那伤者？

如果是这样的话，它的行为还可笑吗？

我们应该让路给它吗？

顿时，我领悟到了一样东西

凡是都有好与坏，是看我们如何去看待那件事情

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这件事情让我想到脾气暴躁的自己

我，就是那么的不耐烦，当事情发生的时候，往往都会乱做决定

当不合我心意的事情发生时，往往我都没有冷静的思考，便乱乱骂人

直到我冷静下来以后，才发觉到自己骂错人，我的脾气就是那样

想另一方面，我这一生，浪费了许多时间来发脾气

原谅别人就是原谅自己

我同意这句话

回想起，以前的时候，我时常为了一些小事而发脾气，骂人

浪费了许多的时间

也常常把开心的事情搞得不欢而散

现在想回，觉得自己很傻

如果，我没有乱乱发脾气的话，我们会有更多美好的回忆

而不是伤人的记忆

吵架时，为何不想想一人退一步，让事情变得更好？

生气前，先反省一下自己

888th

the 888th day.

the third day that he left to aussieland.

the first day i went to school in my new stage of life.

the first time i drove to tuition by my own in this new life.

he is back to his uni life like usual.

and me, still miss him of course.

i should learn from him.

always think of the positive side and concentrate on studies.

first, career.

second, relationship.

this is the position in his heart.

but i know, he put his career at his first place is to make his relationship better.

he wants to have a lovely family with his successful career.

now, the thing that i can do is concentrating on studies first.

he will be back when my exam is on.

i know he will support me always.

i know him well, i love him.

<3

885th day, 23072011

Our 885th day. Is the day he left to Melbourne for the second time.

Time flies really. He came back for one month and the days past so fast.

In this month, we dint go for trip or whatever.

but whenever i need him, he will be there for me.

Appreciated!

I have company wherever i went.

I have a driver wherever i want to go.

I have company whenever i felt bored.

I have overnight talk with him.

Now i know communication is very important for a relationship.

I really need him in my life.

In this month, i also have more interaction with his family.

I love the supper week with his brothers. They are so nice and funny. :)

And i get to know more about his wushu stuff.

He brought me to his tournament for the very first time and i saw his serious face when he was wushu-ing. I like that. <3

Now i know he likes wushu very much.

Although he only slept for two hours, but he is still energetic with his wushu stuffs. He is a responsible guy for everything.

In this month, we also have a little fights.

All because of my madness. I am sorry. Hope that i won't ruin his holiday.

Now i am waiting for the next four months.

For the second time he is back.

Frankly, i miss him very much.

I have to go through another stage of life again.

An independent life without him.

I will stay strong! i hope.

Appreciate what im having now.

Smile :)

WEEEEEEEEEEEEE :D

*Wushu tournamnet. I dont manage to take a photo with him in his former coat.

He likes to carry me all around. I dont know why.

轮回

我相信轮回，你呢？

看见现在的他，就像看见以前的我

我好想念以前的他

我永远都是他的第一

人会变，月会园

他，变了，成熟了

视野也广阔了

他也学会了放下，不再对爱请执着，追求他的理想

而我呢，

完全相反，好像掉入爱情的陷阱

爱他爱得很深，无法自拔

以前的我以为自己很坚强

事实上，我连小草都不如，软弱得很

动不动就发脾气，动不动就哭

现在的我，没有他真的不行

我太依赖他的

我感觉到他已经开始厌倦了我的唠叨

我也觉得自己很烦

这些算轮回吗？